No one should ever tell you you have a problem.
No one else decides that for you.
Only you can decide if it's "a problem".
All sex has joys and consequences. Pros and cons.
Chems too, have pros and cons.
We can reduce the consequences of our chem use, by practicing harm reduction techniques (see here). It's not perfect -we can't remove all the harms or consequences- but we can minimise them.
Then it's just a matter of deciding if the fun we're having is worth the consequences. Not just to ourselves, but to those around us and our community.
Below are some questions designed to help us reflect on our own choices
By answering the questions below, you (and nobody else but you).... can get an idea of whether or not you're happy with your choices; whether the joys and benefits outweigh the consequences of your chem play.
(None are compulsory; ignore questions that don't apply or you don't like).